Homework is a nuisance for many children, but it does serve an important educational purpose. Parents play a vital role by trying to encourage the children a healthy attitude to do homework instead of focusing on negative attitude like harsh punishments (Newcombe, 2012).
As a parent, what can we do to help our children initiate to do their homework?
- Ask yourself!
- What worked in the past that motivates your child to do homework? Preferably the positive ones.
- When is the best time for your child to do homework?Schedule homework time around it.
- Where is the best place for your child to do homework? This place should have minimal distraction.
- Get all stationery and books prepared before your child starts doing homework
- Always remind your child to organize the desk and pack his bag immediately after doing homework. This is his responsibility, not yours.
- You should observe your child, and talk to him to better understand the real situations in order to help your child.
- Always be there when your child needs guidance or a listening ear.
- If you are feeling frustrated from helping your child in homework, take a break.
- If your child is feeling agitated when doing homework, take a 5 min break. Make sure you keep the time.
- Focus on helping your child in homework.
- If you are tempted to shout at your child, walk away to get some fresh air and calm down. Your goal is to help in homework.
- Within the parameters you set around schoolwork, your child is free to make his own choices and deal with the consequences (for not completing homework).
- Never allowed your child to miss school or class whenever he/she fails to complete homework.
- If he/she needs to stay up late to complete homework, let it be. But your child should get up on time the next morning and go to school on time.
- Reward need not to be monetary, it can be a praise or a simplicious meal.
- Rewards should be immediate and consistent for maximum effects. This is same for punishment too =)
- Be consistent with TIME and PLACE to do the homework.
- Making a visual reminder (poster, timetable) will helps to reinforce the routine.
- You should make room for exceptions (vacation, illness, and extra classes) and have plan B.